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Category Archives: Relationship

Tips for You To Consider with LDR

# Believe in yourself, your partner and the relationship

Your strong conviction about yourself and your partner in LDR should not be swayed by others opinions. If you believe that such a relationship will work in your case nothing can break it.

But if you lose faith and entertain negative thoughts, nothing can save your relationship.

# Set back is a way to strengthen your relationship

In the case of LDR, chances are scarce for a perfect love life, where set backs are likely. Hence all setbacks should be taken as opportunity for making the bond stronger.

# You can choose to win or lose

The human trend is to view the negative sides of all issues for which, lack of self confidence and uncertainties are the basic causes. Hence you alone cannot be blamed for it.

The fact is that most of the couples in LDR, express similar concerns. But the truth is that the rate of chances of success of LDR is no where less than in any other relationship. When experts quote that the rate of success in distance relationship is 85% that itself is no indication that the balance of 15% is likely to fail. Instead, identify yourself in the success chart of 85%.

# Opportunity in distance

The physical distance may be giving less occasions for more intimate activities like holding hands, hugging, kissing and sex in a LDR, but it provides opportunities to rediscover the personalities of each other. It is an occasion for you to develop your personality and abilities by joining for courses that both your self and your partner may like to undergo.

In fact the distance will put to test your integrity, patience and love for your partner in a long distance relationship. Hence never concentrate on what you can’t do in LDR, but do think what you can contribute for fortifying your bond from a distance. Your happiness will really depend on the option you choose.

# Problem in communication

For making or breaking a relationship, communication plays a key role. People mostly entertain a false notion that they can’t succeed in this effort due to lack of time and the costs involved. But never go to the problems, instead look into the opportunities at your hand to effectively communicate from a distance.

Develop a skill to sharpen your communication capacity from a distance. For this you can depend on the latest technology like internet, VOIP phone and email etc. All these are evidences to show that you can have your own choice to strengthen the love you have for your partner and your choice only makes the difference.


Healthy Relationship Tips

Everyone feels the need of a life partner. But it is not enough to build a relationship. A healthy association requires lots of work, compromise and willingness that a man or a woman must be ready to resolve conflict in a positive manner.

Young lovers always find themselves in a strange position when it comes to dating, love or proposing someone for marriage. The first date has significant values for boys and girls. To make your first date experience there are variety of romantic date ideas.

A variety of good first date ideas here is shared to ease your first date. It is a relevant fact that for a successful first date is to give optimum opportunity for interaction with the partner. It doesn’t mean that stretching longer time that makes the first meeting absolute boredom.

Here are some of good first date ideas. To maintain a healthy relationship common features among individuals are necessary. It is true that individuals have different choices but if most of likes are common it supports massively in building a strong commandership.

You must start your first date with offering coffee at a favorite coffee shop. You may take opinion for your partner on where they should meet. You must ask on selecting a coffee shop for first date. Traditional first date of dinner and movie that last for longer hours are old ideas. A coffee shop should last longer for 30 minutes for a brilliant conversation and learn about each other. You may go for longer as long as it takes to finish coffee.

Walk alongside at the beach or in park is one of the great first date ideas. It is wonderful way to get to know about your partner. To build a romantic setting free of cost, walking alongside is really a wonderful date ideas. Not only you can take a walk at sunset but go for walk early in the morning. And remember don’t miss any chance to steal a kiss. Besides these great first date ideas you can choose for inviting her to a museum, archeological site, botanical garden, local fairs and festivals or zoo in your city. But before visiting these places you must learn the partner’s interest.

The more you walk together, see plenty of things and talk lots on them the more you will receive the orientation of your partner. You can invite your partner at your room and make dinner together. This is one of the best romantic dating ideas to acknowledge your partner’s taste. You can ask about their interest in cooking and home decoration. A healthy and loving relationship gives energy to your life.

Why Have True Girlfriend is Difficult?

Everyone is in search of someone whom you can trust and share your feelings, someone that can also be your best friend and likes what you like, someone who understands and will not judge you all the time, someone to spend every day with, mess around with. You would have a list of the qualities that you want in her. There can be certain qualities which you search for your girlfriend is:

  • Beautiful
  • Sensitive
  • Caring
  • Smart
  • Loyal

These qualities are really very difficult to found but only girl having these qualities does not help to make a good relationship. Boys should also have some guts.

If you think that you haven’t met someone with these quality and you are waiting for the one very special whom you deserve then there are certain qualities which is needed and help you to get a girlfriend.

What women have primarily referred is the financial status of a man because high status males have a greater ability to protect in every situation.

There are some secondary qualities which are most important and not insignificant. These are:

  • Friendly : He will realize that the key to a girl’s heart is not jewelry, but him having a healthy relationship with her best friends.
  • Surprising : He will be surprising you, even when it is no extraordinary occasion, but not normally enough that these surprises are expected.
  • Good sense of Humor : Once in a while, after months or years of being together, he goes into an entire new period of concentrated kind gestures, gifts, and fun dates.
  • Importance : Even in busy schedules he will have to make the time for you.
  • Good listener: A good boyfriend is an active listener, meaning he asks questions and does not just sit there, waiting for his turn to speak, respect her opinions.
  • Possessiveness : He has a small jealous streak, to let you know he cares about you, but not have a possessive personality over you.
  • Acceptance : He will accept you for all your quirks and loving the cute ones that defines you as who you are.
  • He calls you beautiful rather than hot and sexy, and truly knows that beauty is the combination of physical and personality appeal, rather than hot which is simply raw physical appeal.
  • Honesty : He should be honest with you, even when the answer to the questions you asked, is going to hurt.
  • Supportive : He will give you the moral support you may need from time to time.
  • Mature : He is of the maturity to be able to realize, that he does have faults and tries to be a better man.
  • Finally but not the last, he should be able to make you feel like the perfect girlfriend.

These above are some of the qualities which make a perfect boyfriend – girlfriend relationship. You just need to indicate that you are looking for more than a friendship and so there isn’t any awkward misunderstanding. Ultimately you can find a girlfriend, just remember to be yourself or the best version of yourself and do not act too desperate or needy in the initial stages.

Misconceptions About Black Ladies Who Like White Men

….it’s not always what you think it is

There are some things that other people could assume about the African american woman walking alongside a white male. People may perhaps suppose that the simply reason she is with him is meant for the cash he has to offer her. They might also deduce that she can’t find a African american gentleman caused by the reported black male scarcity and the white guy is her next resort. She may be viewed as one in all those black girls who has been injured by African american males so much that she refuses to date African american men anymore. The African american society, particularly, could think that she selected a white man for the reason that she needs to have light skinned babies with curly hair.

Some African american girls possibly will fall into one or more of those different types, but it is more universal that the African american woman finds a indisputable connection with a white male who at least shares her interests and clicks with her personality.

Things You Must NOT Do When Approaching a Black Woman

The No-nos

Whether you meet her on the street or on an Online Dating Site remain the following in mind.

Don’t come near her with any line resembling, “Are you into white guys?” African american females find that irritating as well as it drips with insecurity as it says that you are only waiting to be rejected based on your face color rather than relying on what you have to proffer.

Do not make too much remarks about her body or supposed “black traits” upon first meeting. One thing black females worry about when it comes to interracial dating is being used as a fetish or test.

Don’t guess that she will be impressed that you love rap music or worship President Obama. She is an individual and might not be into hip hop. She might even be a Republican. Thus be yourself with do not attempt to show anything more than that you are a good man for her.

Find Out what You Really Like when Dating

You need to try out different personality types

You may feel like you know exactly what kind of woman would be proper for you to have a relationship with, but sometimes it can be surprising when you find out that what you thought you wanted, isn’t really what you actually like. The more personality types that you actually spend time with, the more likely it is that you are going to figure out exactly what you like and what kind of woman that you want to be around.

You need to try out different places to meet women

In order to really get a taste of different personality types, you need to try out different places to meet women. People tend to go to places where others like them hang out, so if you go to the same bars and clubs, you are probably going to meet women that tend to be kind of similar. That’s not always a bad thing, but if you really want to get a chance to see what kinds of women you would like to date, you might want to try out multiple places to meet women.

You need to be honest with yourself and not feed into what other people think you should like

I was having a conversation with a guy who really did seem to know what kind of woman he liked, but for some reason, he seemed to think that what others thought mattered more than what he thought. What it came down to was that he liked women that were fit and good looking, and there were people in his life that were telling him that was shallow. Well, you know what? Let them think what they want to, because they are not the ones that actually have to date the women that you do. Be honest and admit what kind of women you are attracted to and don’t worry about other people’s opinions so much.


Asking a Girl Out?, Here Things Not to Do

Become super-invested in her

This is a biggie, both when you’re first starting to know her and when you actually ask her out. When you’re established attraction with her – a must-do before asking any girl out – you want to give off the impression that you could take her or leave her. Girls want a bit of a challenge. In the same way, when asking her out, don’t become too emotionally-invested in her answer of “yes” or “no.” If she feels like it is for you, it’ll put too much pressure on her and she’s get scared.

Be shy

Oh, if girls see a guy who is shy and not very fun, they just can’t wait to hang out with him some more, right? Show her that you’re a fun guy to hang around with, and that if she wanted to, the two of you could have some fun together.

Be a follower

There’s a reason why every girl in high school was attracted to the captain of the football team. Girls love leaders. Show off your leadership ability before asking a girl out by organizing a large event with your friends and inviting her along, or just going to the same party and talking to a whole lot of people. Girls like guys who are comfortable in their own skin.

Ask her to go to a dinner and movie

This has become the worst date possible. Not only is it the most un-original and boring type of date out there, but it suddenly puts this extra legitimacy to the date, which can scare her off for good. Come up with something a bit more original, guys.

Ask her to go to something, sometime

So many guys hate putting themselves out there and specifying a specific thing to do to, so instead of actually asking out a girl they’ll say something like “do you want to do something sometime?” Oh, girls just can’t WAIT to be asked a vague question like that. Come up a plan – which you can use to your benefit, since you can put yourself in the situation that makes you look the best – and ask her to it. If she says “no,” that’s her problem.


Singles Over 50 Dating Tips

# Think positive, focus on what exactly you want to find, a date, your soul mate, activity partner or the right person for life, then act.

# Keep in mind that you are a worthy catch, you know who you are, you have a certain level of comfort in the world, you’ve probably mastered a career or some role in life.

# Dress up age-appropriate, but modern, if you are fifty, you don’t have to wear gray or shapeless cloths, you have to feel comfortable in you’re wearing.

# Find a hobby. Something entertaining and interesting, where you can meet a lot of like-minded singles, to talk with and spend great time together. There are plenty of places to chill and meet mature local singles.

# Be outspoken, friendly and funny, positive people always attract other people attention.

# Make a list of thing you’d like to achieve, and also make a list of things you’d like to improve in yourself.

As you can see dating at 50 is only a beginning of a new page in your life, so make it unforgettable with your significant one.


Tips to Flirt with Girls

If a girl is talking to you, then she’s interested. Plain and simple. But if you’re not going to show interest in her by flirting with her, then she’s just going to assume you have a girlfriend or are just not that into her, and she’s going to find someone who is.

How Do You Flirt?

So, enough about why flirting with girls is important. Now I’m going to show you how to flirt with women.

There are four keys to keep in mind:

  • Use body language to assist your flirting.
  • Make sure to tease her for a bit.
  • Use funny and playful banter to keep her interest.
  • Use people-watching as a way to build a bond between the two of you.

These four points, and many more, are detailed further in my free 27-page document entitled “Make Small Talk Sexy.” It will show you just how to use these four keys and what other tools in your toolshed you have at your disposal to make your flirting lines more effective. It will allow you to take a conversation that is boring and going nowhere, and turn it into a sexy act of flirting within seconds.

So don’t be that guy left at the bar alone again while she ends up going home with someone else. (Who, really, is just better at flirting with girls than you are.) Learn how to flirt by heading here and learning more information about the product.

Dating amongst Teenagers Problems

It is quite often heard of that a middle school girl was assaulted by none other than her dating partner. Generally, people will have notion that such acts are conducted by an unknown person, but with rapidly growing rate of teenage dating, the stories of “assault’ are surfacing in number.

Many of the teenagers revealed in survey that they were touched and force to touch undesirable places against their wish.

Some others also revealed that they had to share their pocket money and other precious things with their girl friend or boyfriend and all this was against kind of “blackmailing”.

The common reasons for such violence

  • Stage of emotional and social development

Teenage is the period when an individual is neither in the childhood stage nor reaches the maturity of an adult. They are yet in the phase wherein emotional and social development contuses. And this is the period when they are not mature enough emotionally to decide the “right” and “wrong” for themselves. Socially, they are not mature enough to realize who is good for them and who is playing up a fast. And all this put together make things even more difficult and they get prone to being caught in wrong hands.

  • Age of making experiments

Teenagers get into a lot of things because their friends have been doing so, and hence they land up making mistakes ones election and even on carrying on with the relationship.

The saving factor

  • Parental guidance and involvement

Parents need to get involved and guide their teenagers not as preachers but as friends. One has to come down to their level to understand and reciprocate their issues accordingly. Spending quality is the best possible answer to this burning social challenge because your teenager needs to feel that comfort from you.

  • Middle School Intervention Programs

Schools can continue organising more and more such programs to educate the teenagers and address the associated issues.

  • Consulting an expert

If an adult observes an importance of any consultation then it should never fall towards the end of the priority list. Timely intervention from an adult and an expert can save a teenager from the damages which are likely to take place.


Tips to Get a Boyfriend

To really find the right man for you, you have to know who YOU are

Being able to discover who you are and what you are really all about is key to being able to find the right guy. You need to know more about yourself in order to figure out what man is going to fit into your life the best. If you don’t know who you are and what you are all about, you’ll find that you can end up attracting just about any guy and you won’t really realize that they are wrong for you until you are already with them.

You need to be able to go to places where the right guys for you are going to be spending their time

One of the worst things that you can do if you want to attract the right man is to end up spending all of your time and your energy in the wrong places. If you are not looking for the kind of guy who is trying to be a player with women, but you end up in the clubs where those guys spend their time, those are going to be the men that you meet. If you want to find someone who is right for you, then you need to be able to find out where they go and spend your time there.

To attract the right guy, you have to be able to show that you are truly confident in yourself

The more confidence that you can show and the more confidence that you can express, the less likely that you are going to be to attract the wrong guy. When you have that air of confidence that says that you really know who you are and what you want, you are going to end up intimidating the wrong guys and turning on the right ones. It’s just the way that it happens most of the time and you want to go with that if you can.